{"id":3295,"date":"2026-01-28T18:25:33","date_gmt":"2026-01-28T18:25:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/nadavattias.com\/?p=3295"},"modified":"2026-01-28T18:25:33","modified_gmt":"2026-01-28T18:25:33","slug":"unconditional-love-vs-people-pleasing","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/nadavattias.com\/en\/unconditional-love-vs-people-pleasing\/","title":{"rendered":"Do I need to receive the same amount of love I give?"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"xdj266r x14z9mp xat24cr x1lziwak x1vvkbs x126k92a\">\n<div dir=\"auto\">\n<h1 data-path-to-node=\"3\">Why is \u201ckeeping score\u201d the death of intimacy? On people\u2011pleasing, needs, and unconditional love.<\/h1>\n<p data-path-to-node=\"4\">The attached photo from Steve Bartlett\u2019s post about maturity and business wisdom sparked a thought in me. He backed the idea that we should receive exactly what we give - but I want to offer the other side of the picture, the one we tend to overlook and that can sometimes sound almost unreasonable.<\/p>\n<p data-path-to-node=\"5\">When I\u2019m on guard, constantly checking what I give against what I get and insisting that I deserve to receive the exact same thing \u2013 not what I truly need, but the same level of energy \u2013 I\u2019m in trouble.<\/p>\n<p data-path-to-node=\"6\">\u05de\u05dc\u05db\u05d5\u05d3\u05ea \u05d4\u05d4\u05e9\u05d5\u05d5\u05d0\u05d4 \u05d0\u05de\u05e8 \u05e4\u05e2\u05dd \u05de\u05d0\u05e8\u05e7 \u05d8\u05d5\u05d5\u05d9\u05d9\u05df: <b data-path-to-node=\"6\" data-index-in-node=\"70\">&quot;Comparison is the death of joy&quot;<\/b> &#8211; &quot;\u05d4\u05d4\u05e9\u05d5\u05d5\u05d0\u05d4 \u05d4\u05d9\u05d0 \u05de\u05d5\u05ea\u05d4 \u05e9\u05dc \u05d4\u05e9\u05de\u05d7\u05d4 (\u05d0\u05d5 \u05d4\u05d0\u05d5\u05e9\u05e8)&quot;. \u05db\u05e9\u05d0\u05e0\u05d9 \u05e2\u05e1\u05d5\u05e7 \u05d1\u05dc\u05d4\u05e9\u05d5\u05d5\u05ea \u05d0\u05ea \u05de\u05d4 \u05e9\u05d0\u05e0\u05d9 \u05de\u05e7\u05d1\u05dc \u05dc\u05e2\u05d5\u05de\u05ea \u05de\u05d4 \u05e9\u05d0\u05e0\u05d9 \u05e0\u05d5\u05ea\u05df, \u05d0\u05e0\u05d9 \u05db\u05dc \u05d4\u05d6\u05de\u05df \u05e2\u05dc \u05d4\u05de\u05e9\u05de\u05e8 \u05d5\u05d6\u05d4 \u05de\u05dc\u05d5\u05d5\u05d4 \u05d1\u05d7\u05de\u05d9\u05e6\u05d5\u05ea \u05de\u05e1\u05d5\u05d9\u05de\u05ea. \u05e7\u05e9\u05d4 \u05dc\u05d9 \u05dc\u05de\u05e6\u05d5\u05d0 \u05d0\u05ea \u05d4\u05e8\u05d5\u05d7\u05d1 \u05d1\u05e0\u05ea\u05d9\u05e0\u05d4 \u05db\u05e9\u05d4\u05e2\u05d9\u05df \u05d4\u05d4\u05d9\u05e9\u05e8\u05d3\u05d5\u05ea\u05d9\u05ea \u05e9\u05dc\u05d9 \u05e9\u05d5\u05de\u05e8\u05ea \u05e2\u05dc\u05d9.<\/p>\n<p data-path-to-node=\"7\">You\u2019re right \u2013 I have needs, but they\u2019re not identical to the other person\u2019s, so there\u2019s no point in comparing \u201cequal energies.\u201d The other person is also not obligated to meet my needs. If her heart is whole in her giving, she can respond to my needs. But if she has to meet them when her heart is not fully in it, she is in people\u2011pleasing mode \u2013 and then we\u2019re in trouble. People\u2011pleasing carries a subtle restlessness that slowly builds up over time.<\/p>\n<h2 data-path-to-node=\"8\">When giving turns into a transaction: the cost of people\u2011pleasing<\/h2>\n<p data-path-to-node=\"9\">When I give in order to have my needs met, I start calculating what is \u201cworth\u201d giving so that my needs will be answered, and then I slip into people\u2011pleasing - and once again, we\u2019re in trouble.<\/p>\n<p data-path-to-node=\"10\">\u05d5\u05d0\u05d6 \u05e2\u05d5\u05dc\u05d4 \u05e9\u05d0\u05dc\u05d4 \u05de\u05e4\u05d7\u05d9\u05d3\u05d4 \u05d5\u05d2\u05d3\u05d5\u05dc\u05d4 &#8211; \u05de\u05d4 \u05d0\u05dd \u05d0\u05e0\u05d9 \u05dc\u05d0 \u05de\u05e1\u05d5\u05d2\u05dc \u05dc\u05ea\u05ea \u05de\u05e2\u05e0\u05d4 \u05dc\u05e6\u05e8\u05db\u05d9\u05d4 \u05d5\u05d4\u05d9\u05d0 \u05d0\u05d9\u05e0\u05d4 \u05de\u05e1\u05d5\u05d2\u05dc\u05ea \u05dc\u05ea\u05ea \u05de\u05e2\u05e0\u05d4 \u05dc\u05e6\u05e8\u05db\u05d9 \u05d0\u05dc\u05d0 \u05d0\u05dd \u05e0\u05d4\u05d9\u05d4 \u05e9\u05e0\u05d9\u05e0\u05d5 \u05d1\u05e8\u05d9\u05e6\u05d5\u05d9? 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